Female fashions naturally evolve in
cycles of varying degrees of provocativeness. In fact, many of the most
fashionable gowns of times past would seem quite risqué today. Throughout
history, women have always flaunted their assets and utilized their sexuality
to achieve their desires and advance. Though this objectification and
sexualization of women is therefore not an entirely new dilemma, it is incredibly
disturbing to see girls subjected to such sexual pressure at younger and
younger ages. Billboards and magazines are covered with either waif-like or
perfectly voluptuous models in provocative poses wearing little more than
underwear, if even that. Girls, from the moment they are born, are bombarded
with images of half-dressed women who appear to lack both brains and
conscience. Shows like Toddlers in Tiaras
only serve to promote this unhealthy obsession with the degrading emphasis on
the superficiality of women and completely disgust me. If these are the only
images that girls see, it can be completely devastating when their body does
not look like what society has deemed to be the ideal. Consequently, there are
record number of girls who are reporting eating disorders, depression, and
activities of self-harm. Who does a girl look up to when her chest is too flat
or her legs are too short?
Although women have made
significant progress in the American work force and have assumed positions of
great leadership and authority, we still face great challenge and adversity. We
consistently earn less than men, with the average woman making only $0.81 for
every dollar earned by a man in the same position. In addition, females are
often passed over in favor of lesser-qualified men in regards to promotions and
bonuses. Yet, in my opinion, the greatest threat to the advancement of women in
the workplace is the pervasion of labels and stereotypes. While a man in power
will be regarded as authoritative, a woman in the same position will often be
called demanding or domineering. In a similar way, women in the workplace are
often criticized for neglecting their “domestic duties” such as cleaning,
cooking, and childrearing. My biggest complaint, however, is that women are
judged so much more harshly than men on their physical appearance. The comments
sections of YouTube videos of incredible female leaders such as Angela Merkel
or Julia Gillard are littered with remarks about how ugly they are or how “un-beddable”
they are, rather than actual criticisms about their political policies or
actions. I too have personally encountered sexism within my own experiences at Mock
Trial competitions, Model U.N. conferences, and intro-to-business events—activities
that are traditionally male-dominated. Even if there are no direct comments
made, the gender issue at these functions is always the “elephant in the room”
and I feel like I have to work harder to prove my right to be there and excel.
Mount has served to empower me and
encourage me to pursue my dreams in spite of adversity. From its motto to its
mission statement, Mount teaches every one of us that we should not be ashamed
of our femininity, but rather that we should embrace it. Throughout these past
four years, I have come to realize my potential. Certain female teachers have
also acted as important mentors to me and I greatly appreciate all the advice,
guidance, and assistance they have given to me over the course of my time at
Mount. Although I feel that Mount sometimes promotes gender stereotyping by upholding
a “cookie-cutter” model of a young, successful woman, my experience in such a
rich and inspiring environment has enabled me to gain self-assurance and
self-confidence, and I know I will graduate prepared to not only face social adversity,
but thrive in spite of it.
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