Although it is considered a "chick flick," the movie He's Just Not That Into You contains many real examples of dating, marriage, and relationships. For example, the long-term relationship between Neil and Beth, played by Ben Affleck and Jennifer Aniston respectively, highlights the issue of cohabitation and marriage. Although Beth strongly desires to tie the knot, Neil resists, citing his opposition to the institution of matrimony. Expressing his commitment to her, he tries to explain that marriage is unnecessary for them since they are content and dedicated to each other. As we discussed in class, many cohabitating couples can enjoy developed and fulfilling relationships. The ultimate marriage of the Beth and Neil, however, does suggest that matrimonial union holds a specialness and an intimacy lacking in cohabitation. Interestingly, the relationship between Janine (Jennifer Connelly) and Ben (Bradley Cooper) reveals that the act of marriage does not always offer martial bliss.
Ultimately, both couples demonstrate that a successful relationship depends on the values, beliefs, and emotional characters of those involved. As I have witnessed in my own life, love works in mysterious ways and no blanket statement or statistic can determine a relationship. The most critical factors in a the outcome of a dating, cohabitating, or marital relationship involve the individual features of the couple, such as their age, education, and life story. Nevertheless, I do believe that marriage is the consummate manifestation of love and an ultimate goal.
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